Bishop Carl A. Kemme shared words of comfort and understanding with those attending a Mass of Remembrance at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church in Wichita. Reflecting on the pain of losing a child, Bishop Kemme acknowledged, "Loss is simply a part of the human condition. But those who lose a child, either by miscarriage or in the birthing process, or sometime after the child is born or even when the child is older, are losses which bring unimaginable, and for most of us, incomprehensible pain."

He highlighted the unique and profound grief experienced by parents who lose a child, emphasizing that "no one could ever be ready for it. And no one can explain it, nor should they try." Bishop Kemme recognized the different ways in which mothers and fathers process their grief, noting that fathers often face societal expectations that may overshadow their own sadness and pain.

The bishop spoke of the lingering questions and uncertainties that can haunt those who have lost a child, acknowledging the challenges of grappling with the mysteries of life and the pain of separation. He emphasized the importance of holding onto faith and the hope of being reunited with loved ones in the afterlife, where all mysteries will be revealed.

Bishop Kemme underscored the significance of shared grief and the healing power of communal mourning, stating that "Grief that is shared and especially grief that is shared with others who have the same grief can often be healing." He encouraged those in mourning to find solace in the memories of their children, knowing that those memories are precious to God and the church.

In conclusion, Bishop Kemme offered a message of hope and reassurance, reminding the bereaved that one day, they will be reunited with their loved ones in a place of eternal joy, peace, and love. He urged them to find healing and hope in the cherished memories of their children and all their deceased loved ones.