Reverend Joseph E. Kurtz, D.D. Bishop | Archdiocese of Louisville

Pope Francis has called on Catholics to pray for parents who have lost a child, emphasizing the importance of offering support and understanding to those enduring such profound grief. In a video released by the Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network on October 31, he addressed the immense pain parents face when outliving their children.

“It is not natural to outlive your child,” the pope stated, underscoring the unnaturalness of such loss. He noted that while there are terms like "widower" or "orphan" for other losses, there is no word for a parent who loses a child, highlighting the depth of this sorrow.

The pope acknowledged that well-meaning words of encouragement can sometimes exacerbate the wound rather than heal it. Instead, he urged people to listen and be present with love and care, following Jesus Christ's example in consoling those afflicted.

Pope Francis also recognized that parents who have found solace in their faith after losing a child can play a vital role in supporting others facing similar tragedies. He encouraged prayers throughout November for grieving parents to find community support and peace from the Spirit of consolation.