Rev. James D. Conley, D.D., S.T.L. | Diocese of Lincoln website

More than 100 Catholic men convened at three locations across the diocese on February 22 to enhance their leadership skills within their faith, families, parishes, and communities. The main event took place at North American Martyrs Parish in Lincoln and was simultaneously broadcast to St. Cecilia in Hastings and St. Patrick in McCook.

The day began with Mass celebrated by Bishop James Conley, followed by breakfast, talks, small group discussions, adoration, lunch, and fellowship. Although Bishop Conley was initially scheduled to speak after Mass, he had to leave for the funeral Mass of Sister Veronica Volkmer but conveyed his message during his homily. He emphasized the longstanding leadership role of laymen in the Lincoln Diocese and expressed high expectations for future collaboration among them.

Father Ed Hopkins from Atlanta delivered two talks focusing on challenges faced by men today. His first talk addressed the isolation that comes from believing they must handle responsibilities alone without seeking help from God or others. This isolation can lead to insecurity and despair as men avoid their duties or hide behind a facade.

In his second talk, Father Hopkins posed a question about whether this era is one of peace or war. He argued that attacks on various aspects of life suggest a state of war and challenged attendees to consider their response if an armed mob threatened their neighborhoods.

Hopkins highlighted technology's potential dangers while acknowledging its benefits. He urged men to reflect on what influences they allow over themselves: “To what, or to whom, have I given power over me?” According to him, only Christ should hold such power.

Dan Donaldson from Heroic Men concluded the summit with insights into fostering spiritual growth through relationships with Jesus and forming genuine friendships with other men sharing similar goals. He noted that many Catholic men lack true friends due to modern societal changes.

Donaldson advised against rushing into organized groups immediately but suggested starting with simple social interactions like coffee meetings before progressing towards deeper discipleship journeys together.

He also discussed moving beyond merely adding members to existing groups toward creating multiple groups within each parish community for broader engagement among Catholic men at different stages of their spiritual paths.

During his presentation Donaldson distributed over 80 copies of Curtis Martin’s book "Making Missionary Disciples," which outlines successful strategies used by FOCUS (Fellowship Of Catholic University Students).

Organizers plan another men's event next year; interested parties may contact Bob Sullivan via email provided above for further details.