Reverend Joseph E. Kurtz, D.D. Bishop | Archdiocese of Louisville

An award-winning play, "Groomed," written and performed by Patrick Sandford, made its U.S. public premiere on October 20 in the Diocese of Albany. The performance provided an opportunity for deep reflection on child sexual abuse. Sandford's play portrays his own experiences with abuse at the hands of a teacher during his childhood in England.

Sandford explained that writing the play helped him release inner turmoil and hopes future performances will foster understanding, conversation, prevention, and healing among victims and supporters. The 55-minute play was followed by a discussion session at Siena College in Loudonville.

The Hope and Healing Committee of the Diocese of Albany organized the event as a free gathering for survivors of child abuse and others interested in learning more about the issue. The committee began planning for this cross-Atlantic premiere in March with encouragement from Albany Bishop Edward B. Scharfenberger, who attended the event.

The performance included musical contributions from saxophonist Marcus Benoit and depicted a decades-long journey through emotions like anger, shame, and silence. Sandford shared that he did not discuss his experiences until his mid-30s or with many friends until his 50s. He is now 72 years old.

Statistics discussed during the post-performance session highlighted that one in four women and one in six men globally have experienced child sexual abuse. Audience members expressed concerns about support groups, awareness initiatives, therapy services, and preventive measures across various societal segments.

Noelle Marie, victim assistance coordinator for the Diocese of Albany, noted progress in establishing training programs but emphasized addressing wider societal trauma issues. She mentioned efforts to extend trauma training within the diocese.

A speaker highlighted the Vatican's Pontifical Commission for the Protection of Minors as part of efforts to reduce child sex abuse over generations while taking immediate actions.

Sandford acknowledged challenges faced by survivors struggling with repressed memories or shame but appreciated audience praise for "Groomed" as both artistic and courageous. He expressed gratitude for launching a six-show tour across upstate New York and New England with this U.S. premiere.

“I am so thrilled that you are all here,” he said, “because it means you are hearing and thinking, and that just warms my heart.”