Bishop Thomas John Paprocki | Diocese of Springfield

In order to make a good confession, it is important to prepare beforehand. Father Brian Alford, the rector of the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception in Springfield and Vicar for Clergy, Consecrated Life, and Vocations for the Diocese of Springfield in Illinois, emphasizes the significance of preparation in ensuring a successful confession. He likens the importance of preparing for confession to preparing for a serious conversation, stating that entering into such a conversation unprepared can compromise one's ability to effectively communicate their message.

Father Alford highlights the anxiety that often accompanies the act of going to confession, which can make it difficult for individuals to adequately express their sins. However, by preparing ahead of time, individuals can overcome their nerves and approach the confessional in a better position to confess their sins. He also emphasizes the importance of making an integral confession, which entails confessing as many sins as possible, rather than hastily trying to recall sins just moments before confession.

To aid in the preparation process, Father Alford suggests starting with a prayer to the Holy Spirit, asking for guidance and illumination in identifying areas of life where forgiveness is needed. Additionally, he recommends using an Examination of Conscience guide, which can be found online or provided by the Church. These guides typically include questions related to the Ten Commandments and the Precepts of the Church, allowing individuals to reflect on their actions and identify any sins they need to confess.

While more experienced individuals may eventually be able to prepare for confession without a guide, Father Alford believes that using an Examination of Conscience guide can be a helpful starting point, especially for those who haven't been to confession in a while. By engaging in thorough preparation and seeking God's mercy, individuals can approach the confessional with a clear mind and a sincere desire for forgiveness.

In conclusion, Father Brian Alford stresses the importance of preparation before going to confession. By taking the time to pray, reflect, and utilize an Examination of Conscience guide, individuals can ensure a more meaningful and thorough confession. Through this preparation, they open themselves to receiving the merciful forgiveness of God.